There is no such thing as a perfect relationship or marriage. It is always a work in progress. Both people are constantly changing and working on themselves and on their relationships. On top of all that you have to balance with putting God first, work, money management, bills, housework, pets and the list goes on and on. The Bible did not joke when it talks about a capable wife and all the hats she wears. One thing I can say is patience is a virtue… (insert hands in air emoji). I am exhausted just from typing all that. I have found that in a “perfect” marriage both people recognize that everyone is flawed but that is not what we focus on. The focus is on putting God first and seeing the good qualities in each other. It is so important to remember that you are on the same team and you are heading to the same finish line. Do not get me wrong you will still have disagreements and become annoyed about things so never expect rainbows and butterflies for the rest of your life. Take time to read up on what the Bible’s council to couples is and you will be pleasantly surprised.
Positivity is a lifestyle!