Pandemic # sigh

Well… I’m not gonna lie. I gained 20lbs during the pandemic. I was afraid to step on the scale but I did and I felt so sad. I looked at myself in the mirror and hated what I saw. With things opening back up and the possibility of being in social settings my anxiety began…

Work in progress…

There is no such thing as a perfect relationship or marriage. It is always a work in progress. Both people are constantly changing and working on themselves and on their relationships. On top of all that you have to balance with putting God first, work, money management, bills, housework, pets and the list goes on…

Fatigue…

Time for a PCOS update. I stopped taking metformin a few months ago and I gained so much weight. I was doing so much better without taking that stupid medicine. For those wondering why I stopped taking metformin… It made me so sick it affected my quality of life. It made my stomach so upset…

Good grief – miscarriage

Revisiting a miscarriage from 2019. Losing a baby is so tough and I cannot begin to imagine the trauma of back to back miscarriages. In my case it was an ectopic pregnancy. The doctor had explained my options and I drove home devastated. How my heart ached knowing I had to terminate my pregnancy or…

Luna Suni

In the midst of this hectic year, I decided to fill a void in my life by means of a German shepherd puppy. It has been the best decision I’ve made. I named her Luna Suni. Luna means moon and Suni means good and happy. She is the sweetest and smartest puppy I have ever…

a new world

There has been such a change in the world at the moment. It feels like we are living in a new world. I am not sure which way is up. I am frustrated because we live in an imperfect world. The governments in the state I live in are not thinking about the best interest…

Good Read from jw.org

COVER SUBJECT | DISEASE—HOW TO REDUCE THE RISK Protect Yourself From Disease MANY ancient cities were protected by massive walls. If an enemy breached just a small section of a wall, the safety of the entire city was at risk. Your body is like a walled city. How you care for your defenses has much…

Give me love…

What is necessary after a physically taxing workout? Maybe some stretching or icing the body, a massage and some nutritious meal. You take care of the body. Having the same concept in mind let’s think about a relationship during a fight. We can agree that fights are taxing to both people in the relationship. Both…

Marriage 1.0…

Marriage is not for the faint of heart. You love and you hate. You give and you get. Sometimes you give and you give and you give… then you wake up and you are already mad at your spouse for the simple fact that they are breathing. There is nothing that comes out of their…

Keeping your word….

The importance of keeping your word…Keeping Our Promises Builds Trust. Despite living in a world with declining morals and standards of honesty, most people value integrity. The saying goes that ‘a man is only as good as his word is.’ Do you keep your word? Because we are imperfect humans we often hold others to…